How it works

Four steps. The rest happens between you.

  1. 1

    Create

    Choose the basics — or let them decide.

  2. 2

    Meet

    Meet someone with a unique life and personality.

  3. 3

    Get to know each other

    What happens between you is remembered.

  4. 4

    Evolve

    The relationship, their life and knowledge change over time.

What you choose, and what's theirs

You pick a few things: name or not, age (18+), where they're from, the language you talk in, how you know each other.

Everything else — family, work, history, taste, flaws — is theirs. You find it out by talking, not by reading a profile.

Her mood, energy and closeness to you change from what actually happens, and time passes for her between your messages.